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Everyday Mental Health and Emotional Resilience

Tanya Barros, Vice President of Behavioral Health Services at Episcopal Health Services

Mental health is not something we switch on and off – it is an essential part of our daily lives. From how we process stress to how we respond to challenges, our mental and emotional well-being shapes how we think, feel and function. That’s why caring for our mental health each day is just as important as maintaining our physical health.

At Episcopal Health Services (EHS) Department of Behavioral Health, the focus is on empowering individuals by promoting awareness, building resilience and providing support to better navigate life with confidence.

What Is Everyday Mental Health?

Everyday mental health is the ongoing practice of checking in with yourself, emotionally and physically.

It means:

  • Being aware of how you’re feeling
  • Noticing changes in your mood, energy, sleep and/or appetite
  • Recognizing how stress is impacting your body and mind

Sometimes, emotional stress can manifest physically, through headaches, fatigue or other symptoms. Taking a moment to “scan” your body and mind can help you better understand what may be happening beneath the surface. Prioritizing your mental health is not selfish, it is essential to overall well-being.

Recognizing the Signs of Emotional Struggle

All individuals experience stress, but the body sends signals when additional support is needed.

Common signs include:

  • Changes in eating habits (eating too much or too little)
  • Difficulty sleeping or staying asleep
  • Persistent or overwhelming thoughts
  • Feeling unable to function in daily life (work, relationships, routines)
  • Increased stress during major life transitions (loss, divorce, moving, caregiving)

When these feelings begin to interfere with how you live, work or connect with others, it may be time to reach out for support.

Building Emotional Resilience in Everyday Life

Resilience isn’t about avoiding challenges, it’s about how you respond to them. These simple, daily strategies can help strengthen emotional resilience over time:

  • Maintain routines while staying flexible: Structure provides stability, but adaptability helps you navigate unexpected challenges.
  • Practice self-compassion: Speak to yourself with kindness, especially during difficult moments. Growth comes from giving yourself grace.
  • Reflect on challenges: Ask yourself: What was difficult today? What did I learn? How did I get through it? Journaling can be a helpful way to track progress and recognize personal growth.
  • Accurately label your emotions: Understanding what you’re truly feeling, whether it’s stress, frustration, fear or sadness, allows you to process experiences more clearly and avoid mislabeling emotions.

Over time, these habits help you build confidence in your ability to handle life’s challenges.

Supporting Loved Ones Through Mental Health Challenges

If someone you care about is struggling, your support can make a meaningful difference.

Helpful ways to show support include:

  • Listening without judgment
  • Creating a safe, open space for conversation
  • Avoiding the urge to “fix” the problem
  • Normalizing someone’s experience and validating their feelings
  • Thanking someone for trusting you

When to Seek Professional Support

Seeking timely help may deter a crisis. Professional services are available to assist you if:

  • Your feelings are interfering with experiencing joy or navigating your daily life
  • You are experiencing overwhelming stress, anxiety or sadness
  • You have thoughts of harming yourself or others
  • You are experiencing symptoms like hallucinations

Seeking help may foster personal growth, self-awareness and coping skills for everyday life.

If a loved one expresses thoughts of self-harm or suicide, it is important to act immediately by calling 911 or bringing them to the nearest emergency room. 988, the NYS Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, is also an option and is available 24/7. You may text or call to speak to a counselor.

What to Expect from Behavioral Health Services at EHS

EHS is committed to making mental health care approachable, accessible and supportive.

Patients can expect:

  • A safe, confidential and non-judgmental holistic approach
  • An intake session to discuss your immediate concerns, history and goals
  • Personalized care with the right provider to meet your needs
  • Working with culturally responsive professionals
  • Services delivered in a modern, state-of-the-art setting that promotes recovery

Services are available for all age groups, including children, adolescents, and older adults, with both individual and group therapy options. Located in the new Walsh Ambulatory Pavilion, EHS Behavioral Health Services offers a modern, welcoming space designed to support healing and comfort. The team includes bilingual providers and access to interpretation services, ensuring care is accessible to the diverse community we serve.

Taking the First Step

EHS encourages you to prioritize your mental health, ask questions and seek care when needed. Whether you’re facing a challenge or simply looking to grow, taking that first step can lead to meaningful, lasting change.

To book an appointment for yourself or a loved one, or for more information on our services, visit ehs.org/behavioralhealth.